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Lesson 31

Casual Conversations Before Meetings Start
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Learning Objectives

 By the end of this lesson, you will be able to:​​

    Start brief casual conversations to connect with colleagues and ease tension before meetings.
Exercise 1
Situation

Direction: Read the situation for today's lesson 

Alex arrives early for a team meeting with Mr. Miller, Sarah, and Omar. While waiting for everyone to gather, he notices the team looks a little tense. Alex wants to start a short, casual conversation to break the ice, create a relaxed atmosphere, and make everyone feel comfortable before the meeting begins. He learns how to ask simple questions, comment on neutral topics, and respond naturally without taking too much time.

Exercise 2

Vocabulary

Direction:  Listen and repeat after your tutor

Small talk

noun

/smɔːl tɔːk/
Meaning:

Light, informal conversation about general topics.

    Alex uses small talk to ease tension before the meeting.

Break the tension

idiom

/breɪk ðə ˈtɛnʃən/
Meaning:

To make a situation less serious or stressful.

    A few jokes helped Alex break the tension in the room.

Strike up

phrasal verb

/straɪk ʌp/
Meaning:

To start a conversation.

    Alex struck up a conversation with Omar about the weekend.

Off the top of your head

phrase

/ɔf ðə tɑp əv jʊər hɛd/
Meaning:

Without planning or thinking too much.

    Alex gave an off-the-top-of-your-head comment about the weather.
Exercise 3

Office Conversation 

Direction:  Read the conversation aloud with your teacher.

Situation:

Anna introduces herself to a new colleague at work.

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Hi Alex, did you catch the game last night?

Sarah

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Not really, just off the top of my head, I heard it was exciting.

Alex

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I’m glad you’re here early. It helps break the tension.

Omar

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Definitely. I thought we could do a bit of small talk before starting.

Alex

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Good idea! It’s nice to relax a little.

Sarah

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Omar, how was your weekend?

Alex

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It was great, thanks! How about yours?

Omar

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Pretty good. Just catching up on reading and a bit of exercise.

Alex

Check Understanding

Direction: Answer the questions about the conversation. 

1. What does 'break the tension' mean in the dialogue?
2. How did Alex start a conversation with Omar?
3. Why is small talk useful before a meeting?

Exercise 4

Study Guide

Direction:  Read the study manual aloud. 

Casual conversations before meetings help create a relaxed atmosphere, improve communication, and build rapport among team members. Start with small talk about neutral topics such as the weather, weekend plans, or general office events. Keep your comments light-hearted and brief, so they do not take over the meeting time. Striking up a conversation early shows you are approachable and helps break the tension if colleagues seem stressed.

You can respond to others’ comments off the top of your head, meaning without overthinking, to keep the conversation natural. Avoid sensitive topics like politics or personal matters. Casual conversation is also an opportunity to connect with new coworkers and make everyone feel included. By practicing these skills regularly, you will become more confident in easing tension and creating a positive start for meetings, helping the team engage more effectively in the discussion ahead.

Exercise 5
Choose the Correct Answer

Direction: Direction: Select the correct answer from the options A, B, or C.


    1. Alex arrived early ___ the meeting.

    A. for
    B. at
    C. on

    2. “A” in small talk means ___

    A. informal conversation
    B. a formal speech
    C. an email

    3. Small talk ___ stress before meetings.

    A. breaks
    B. breaking
    C. broken

    4. Strike up means ___

    A. start a conversation
    B. leave a room
    C. take notes

    5. Off the top of your head means ___

    A. without planning
    B. very detailed
    C. carefully written

    6. Casual conversations ___ rapport.

    A. build
    B. builds
    C. built

    7. Light-hearted talk is ___

    A. cheerful
    B. serious
    C. complicated

    8. Conversations before meetings make people ___

    A. comfortable
    B. stressed
    C. impatient
Exercise 6
Discussion

Direction: Discuss these questions to practice speaking and share experiences.


    1. How do you usually start conversations before meetings?

    2. When is it appropriate to use small talk in the office?

    3. What topics are safe for casual conversations?

    4. How can you break the tension if the room feels stressed?

    5. Where else in the office can you use brief chats to connect?

    6. How do you join a conversation if you are shy?

    7. What is the difference between small talk and formal discussion?

    8. How does casual conversation affect team morale?
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